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Jul 18, 2012
07/12
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Hoffman, Barry
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After each story ... a list of questions and activites for the readers, as well as parents and teachers ... for discussion, debate and even argument"--Introduction
Topics: Selfishness, Spousal abuse, Obesity, Obesity, Selfishness, Spousal abuse
Mrs. Rudd was led into serious trouble by sexual impropriety. Her husband was insane and abusive, and she took legal steps to keep him away from her. After having fled and disguised herself under a false name for a number of months, her life settled down when Mr. Rudd emigrated and she was left a large inheritance by a friend who felt sorry for her. She then unfortunately made the acquaintance of Daniel Perreau, and after a time began living with him as his wife; they had three children. He...
Topics: bigamy, forgery, spousal abuse
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Topics: Demarest, Prudence-Catherine, Divorce, Spousal abuse
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Aug 6, 2018
08/18
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Fourré, Constance
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187 pages ; 23 cm
Topics: Spousal abuse, Marital violence, Psychological abuse, Self-help techniques, Marital violence,...
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Sep 19, 2014
09/14
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Speight, Shameek A
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Topics: Spousal abuse, Children of drug addicts, African Americans
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May 7, 2019
05/19
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La Bella, Laura, author
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64 pages : 24 cm
Topics: Family violence -- Juvenile literature, Intimate partner violence -- Juvenile literature, Spousal...
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Jun 13, 2011
06/11
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Wiehl, Lis W; Henry, April
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Topics: Women lawyers, Women television journalists, Female friendship, Stalking, Spousal abuse, Abused...
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May 27, 2011
05/11
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Julie Steele
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Earlier this year Julie Steele interviewed Brenda Clubine a woman who spent 26 years in prison for killing her abusive husband. Clubine was on campus for the screening of a film Sin of Silence by the Womenâs Action Council at UTC. The film features Clubine and is about an organization she founded while in prison.
Topics: Brenda Clubine, spousal abuse, domestic violence, CWAA, Convicted Women Against Abuse, prison, UTC,...
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Sep 12, 2011
09/11
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Sonkin, Daniel Jay
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Includes bibliographies and index
Topics: Family violence, Forensic psychology, Abused wives, Abused children, Child Abuse, Family, Spousal...
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Feb 15, 2011
02/11
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Julie Steele
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A Former inmate and founder of the first inmate initiated and led group in U.S. prison history will be on the UTC campus in March for a screening of the film that tells her story. Brenda Clubine and the film are brought to campus by the UTC Womenâs Center, according to womenâs center director Sara Peters. Clubine created Convicted Women Against Abuse. She served 26 years aftr being sentenced to 16 years to life for killing her husband. She was released in 2008 after her sentence was vacated....
Topics: Brenda Clubine, spousal abuse, domestic violence, CWAA, Convicted Women Against Abuse, prison, UTC,...
TMSS. Full Instruments Available in: Thompson, M. P.; Basile, K. C.; Hertz, M. F.; Sitterle, D. (2006). Measuring Intimate partner Violence and Victimization and Perpetration: A Compendium of Assessment Tools . Atlanta, GA. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. [42 full text instruments] Domestic violence, Abused women – Evaluation, Dating violence – Evaluation, Spousal abuse – Evaluation, Risk assessment, Victimisation models MAY BE AVAILABLE ONLINE AT:...
Topics: Domestic violence, Abused women – Evaluation, Dating violence – Evaluation, Spousal abuse –...
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Jul 17, 2015
07/15
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Wiehl, Lis W; Henry, April
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Includes discussion questions
Topics: Women lawyers, Women television journalists, Female friendship, Stalking, Spousal abuse, Abused...
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x, 270 pages : 24 cm
Topics: Families Violence, Spousal abuse, Family violence, Elder Abuse, Child Abuse, Spouse Abuse, Family,...
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Dec 17, 2019
12/19
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Lockley, Nigeria, author
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382 pages ; 21 cm
Topics: Families -- Fiction, Desertion and non-support -- Fiction, Spousal abuse -- Fiction, Desertion and...
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Feb 19, 2015
02/15
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Potter-Efron, Ronald T; Potter-Efron, Patricia S
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"Has also been published as Journal of chemical dependency treatment, volume 3, number 1, 1989"--Title page verso
Topics: Substance abuse, Aggressiveness, Family violence, Spousal abuse, Child Abuse, Family, Spouse Abuse,...
There are no significant research findings to report during this period since no data has been gathered.
Topics: DTIC Archive, Taft, Casey T, BOSTON VA RESEARCH INST MA BOSTON, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SPOUSAL ABUSE,...
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Apr 24, 2016
04/16
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Funny or Die
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Topics: Funny or Die Video Archive, Caught on Tape, Goes On, Ryan Cole, abusive, battered wife, husband,...
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Sep 27, 2010
09/10
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Sonkin, Daniel Jay; Martin, Del; Walker, Lenore E
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Bibliography: p. 239-248
Topics: Family violence, Men, Family psychotherapy, Spousal abuse, Violence familiale, Hommes, Thérapie...
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Sep 14, 2014
09/14
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Funny or Die
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Nicholas is so funny it will kill you.
Topics: Funny or Die Video Archive, Dr Phil, Nicholas Rizzi, Yuk Yuk's, blacks, blondes, busting, comments,...
Topics: AMERICAN INDIANS, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, TREATMENT, TECHNICAL ASSISTANCE, REHABILITATION PROGRAMS,...
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Sep 15, 2014
09/14
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CrazyShitShow
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Tonight Krystal & Janella talk about Ray Rice, Adrian Peterson, Mike Tyson, and Chris Brown.
Topics: Athletes, Abuse, Child abuse, Spousal Abuse, Domestic Violence, Victims, NFL, Entertainment, Ray...
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This week on TALK! with AUDREY TV: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Joining Audrey to discuss the issue of domestic violence and prevention is Judge and Women's Rights Advocate Jeanine Pirro. Pirro has received considerable recognition for her work as a leading advocate for victims of domestic violence, enacting game-changing laws. It is hard to know exactly how common domestic violence is, because people often don't report it. There is no typical victim. It happens among people of...
Topics: searchonly, judge jeanine piro, domestic violence awareness month, spousal abuse, womens issues,...
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Dec 16, 2019
12/19
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Paris, B. A., author
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293 pages ; 24 cm
Topics: Married people -- Fiction, Marital conflict -- Fiction, Abusive men -- Fiction, Family secrets --...
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Dec 9, 2019
12/19
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Campbell, Jacquelyn
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xx, 444 p. ; 24 cm
Topics: Victims of family violence, Nursing, Nursing care, Child abuse -- Nursing texts, Spousal abuse --...
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Mar 23, 2019
03/19
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Clackamas County
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Strangulation during an act of domestic violence is now a felony in Oregon, rather than a misdemeanor. We caught up with #ClackCo Sheriff Craig Roberts and Clackamas Women's Services Executive Director Melissa Erlbaum about why the change needed to happen and what it means. Find more videos at: https://www.youtube.com/user/ClackamasCounty Live Stream: http://www.clackamas.us/cable/streaming.html Website: http://www.clackamas.us/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ClackamasCounty Twitter:...
Topics: Clackamas County, Oregon, Clackamas County, Government Access TV, Community Media, PEG, Youtube,...
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Mar 24, 2019
03/19
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Clackamas County
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We chat with #ClackCo Chief Deputy District Attorney John Wentworth about the newly-enacted law that makes acts of strangulation as part of domestic violence a felony. Filmed at A Safe Place Family Justice Center in Oregon City. More at www.asafeplacefjc.org. Find more videos at: https://www.youtube.com/user/ClackamasCounty Live Stream: http://www.clackamas.us/cable/streaming.html Website: http://www.clackamas.us/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ClackamasCounty Twitter:...
Topics: Clackamas County, Oregon, Clackamas County, Government Access TV, Community Media, PEG, Youtube,...
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Dec 18, 2019
12/19
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Walker, Lenore E
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xx, 529 p. : 24 cm
Topics: Post-traumatic stress disorder, Abused women -- Mental health, Psychotherapy, Psychotherapy --...
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Dec 1, 2018
12/18
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SC Jones, DD
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The stories of how two sisters dealt with abuse, and the hopes they shared through a Sweater and Jesus Christ. Includes Pastoral Fundraising and Outreach Plan for Victims of Domestic Violence, Poems and Bible Scripture References. { (CC) Attribution-Non Commercial-No Deriviatives- 4.0 International . Creative Rights Apply To: Publication; Story Line; Film Rights; Author's Writing, Illustrations, and Photos. }
Topics: Domestic Violence Victims Fund Raising, Public Speaking Outline, spousal abuse, Jesus Christ, Bible...
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Dec 17, 2019
12/19
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Wiehl, Lis W
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1 online resource (310 pages)
Topics: Homicide -- Fiction, Spanish language -- Reading materials, Women television journalists, Women...
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Oct 21, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Contrary to popular misconceptions, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Acute Stress Disorder (or Reaction) are not typical responses to prolonged abuse. They are the outcomes of sudden exposure to severe or extreme stressors (stressful events). Yet, some victims whose life or body have been directly and unequivocally threatened by an abuser react by developing these syndromes. PTSD is, therefore, typically associated with the aftermath of physical and sexual abuse in both children and...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Jan 18, 2011
01/11
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Sam Vaknin
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You cannot change people, not in the real, profound, deep sense. You can only adapt to them and adapt them to you. If you do find your narcissist rewarding at times â you should consider doing these: Determine your limits and boundaries. How much and in which ways can you adapt to him (i.e., accept him AS HE IS) and to which extent and in which ways would you like him to adapt to you (i.e., accept you as you are). Act accordingly. Accept what you have decided to accept and reject the rest....
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 19, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Some people adopt the role of a professional victim. In doing so, they become self-centred, devoid of empathy, abusive, and exploitative. In other words, they become narcissists. The role of "professional victims" - people whose existence and very identity rests solely and entirely on their victimhood - is well researched in victimology. It doesn't make for a nice reading. These victim "pros" are often more cruel, vengeful, vitriolic, lacking in compassion and violent than...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Nov 2, 2010
11/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Your first "fallback" option is your family. They are, in many cases (though by no means always) your natural allies. They can provide you with shelter, money, emotional support, and advice. Don't hesitate to call on them in times of need. Your friends and, to a lesser extent, your colleagues and neighbours will usually lend you a sympathetic ear and will provide you with useful tips. Merely talking to them can not only ease the burden â but protect you from future abuse. Stalkers...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Nov 19, 2010
11/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Dump him and go about reconstructing your own life. Very few people deserve the kind of investment that is an absolute prerequisite to life with a narcissist. To cope with a narcissist is a full time, energy and emotion-draining job, which reduces people around him to insecure nervous wrecks. Who deserves such a sacrifice? No one, to my mind, not even the most brilliant, charming, breathtaking, suave narcissist. The glamour and trickery wear thin and underneath them a monster lurks which...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Dec 22, 2010
12/10
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Sam Vaknin
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If you insist on staying with him -- you must also be prepared to serve as a Source of Narcissistic Supply, an alternative to the supply provided by his former lover. You must brace yourself: serving as a Narcissistic Supply Source is an onerous task, a full time job and a very ungrateful one at that. The narcissist's thirst for adulation, admiration, worship, approval, and attention can never by quenched. It is a Sisyphean, mind-numbing effort, which heralds only additional demands and...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 21, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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he erotomaniac stalker believes that he is in love with you. To show his keen interest, he keeps calling you, dropping by, writing e-mails, doing unsolicited errands "on your behalf", talking to your friends, co-workers, and family, and, in general, making himself available at all times. The erotomaniac feels free to make for you legal, financial, and emotional decisions and to commit you without your express consent or even knowledge. (From the book "Malignant Self-love:...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 21, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Many abusers have a specific body language. It comprises an unequivocal series of subtle -- but discernible -- warning signs. Pay attention to the way your date comports himself -- and save yourself a lot of trouble! (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Our Chi For Yourself guest had a full life as a corporate manager of a Fortune 500 company, a healing arts business owner, and an author of three books. But it all came to a screeching halt for Erica Tucci in June 2011 when she had a stroke that left her completely paralyzed on her right side. During Erica's recovery, she gave great thought to what’s really important in life, and she re-entered the world with a new mission: to use her story as an inspiration for others facing life...
Topics: Erica Tucci, Radiant Survivor, surviving stroke, surviving cancer, spousal abuse, substance abuse,...
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Oct 20, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Children have a right to know the overall state of affairs between their parents. They have a right not to be cheated and deluded into thinking that "everything is basically OK" -- or that the separation is reversible. Both parents are under a moral obligation to tell their offspring the truth: the relationship is over for good. A responsible parent should teach the child how to resist inappropriate and hurtful actions. The child should be brought up to insist on being respected by...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Jul 17, 2019
07/19
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T. F. Shepherd
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This video has audio. Please adjust the sound to a volume that is right for you. Thank you. Video Links: Recommended Article: Rape & Justice: The Violation of the Mother https://medium.com/@coffluidwarriors/rape-justice-the-violation-of-the-mother-96ada47cc97b **************************************************** If you would like to do more to aid this channel here is the needed information. Thank you for your support. I appreciate it, and you! Constructive Feedback and Comments...
Topics: husband, wife, love, hate, marriage, relationships, men, women, sorrow, misery, suffering, pain,...
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Dec 29, 2015
12/15
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Sam Vaknin
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Ken Heilbrunn's insightful and magisterial introduction to "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin. Read the full text here: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/kenintro.html Hello. Recognise me? No? Well, you see me all the time. You read my books, watch me on the big screen, feast on my art, cheer at my games, use my inventions, vote me into office, follow me into battle, take notes at my lectures, laugh at my jokes, marvel at my successes, admire my appearance,...
Topics: ken heilbrunn, sam vaknin, malignant self love narcissism revisited, abuse, antisocial, battering,...
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Mar 27, 2020
03/20
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Sam Vaknin
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Social isolation with the narcissist is a hostage situation: intermittent reinforcement leads to trauma bonding and the Stockholm Syndrome. The pandemic challenges the narcissist's grandiosity. The narcissist displaces his need for control onto his spouse or intimate partner. It is difficult to obtain scarce narcissistic supply in a pandemic, so the narcissist reverts to his partner and when she frustrates his insatiable appetite, he becomes aggressive: sexually demanding or withholding,...
Topics: covid19, pandemic, coronavirus, social isolation, aggression, intermittent reinforcement, abuse,...
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Oct 16, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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The most dangerous class of abusers is the paranoid-delusional. If your ex is one of these, he is likely to: Believe that you still love him (erotomania). Interpret everything you do or say -- even to third parties -- as "hidden messages" addressed to him and professing your undying devotion (ideas of reference). Confuse the physical with the emotional (regard sex as "proof" of love and be prone to rape you). Blame the failure of the relationship on you or on others --...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 16, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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There are a few techniques which work wonders with abusers. Some psychologists recommend to treat repeat offenders as one would toddlers. The abuser is, indeed, an immature brat -- though a dangerous one, endowed as he is with the privileges and capabilities of an adult. Sometimes ignoring his temper tantrums until it is over is a wise policy. But not very often -- and, definitely not as a rule. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Mar 30, 2011
03/11
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Sam Vaknin
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Victims of abuse in all its forms -- verbal, emotional, financial, physical, and sexual -- are often disorientated. They require not only therapy to heal their emotional wounds, but also practical guidance and topical education. At first, the victim is, naturally, distrustful and even hostile. The therapist or case worker must establish confidence and rapport painstakingly and patiently. The therapeutic alliance requires constant reassurance that the environment and treatment modalities chosen...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 20, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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The Narcissist says: Children, to me, are both mirrors and competitors. They reflect authentically my constant need for adulation and attention. Their grandiose fantasies of omnipotence and omniscience are crass caricatures of my internal world. The way they abuse others and mistreat them hits close to home. Their innocuous charm, their endless curiosity, their fount of energy, their sulking, nagging, boasting, bragging, lying, and manipulating are mutations of my own behaviour. I recognize my...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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May 26, 2010
05/10
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Jaffe, Peter G; Wolfe, David A. (David Allen), 1951-; Wilson, Susan Kaye
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Includes bibliographical references (p. 119-127) and index
Topics: Children of abused wives, Adjustment (Psychology), Children of abused wives, Spousal abuse,...
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Jan 18, 2011
01/11
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Sam Vaknin
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Can't we act civilised and remain on friendly terms with our narcissist ex? Never forget that narcissists (full fledged ones) are nice and friendly only when: a. They want something from you -- Narcissistic Supply, help, support, votes, money... They prepare the ground, manipulate you and then come out with the "small favour" they need or ask you blatantly or surreptitiously for Narcissistic Supply ("What did you think about my performance...", "Do you think that I...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 16, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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For her traumatic wounds to heal, the victim of abuse requires closure - one final interaction with her tormentor in which he, hopefully, acknowledges his misbehaviour and even tenders an apology. Fat chance. Few abusers - especially if they are narcissistic - are amenable to such weakling pleasantries. More often, the abused are left to wallow in a poisonous stew of misery, self-pity, and self-recrimination. Depending on the severity, duration, and nature of the abuse, there are three forms of...
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Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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May 19, 2011
05/11
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Sam Vaknin
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Abusers often use other people to do their dirty work for them. If all else fails, the abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates, family members, the authorities, institutions, neighbours, the media, teachers â in short, third parties â to do his bidding. He uses them to cajole, coerce, threaten, stalk, offer, retreat, tempt, convince, harass, communicate and otherwise manipulate his target. He controls these unaware instruments exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. He employs...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
